You don't need a heartbreak for that.
Go get yourself a good guy. The kind that seems to always have everything figured out, looks at things in black and white and has no energy for negativity in his life. How do you pick him out of the crowd of your pursuers? Read on.
Good guys rarely feel the need to overdress or wear more than two accessories at a time. He's the kind of man you can trust to meet your parents for an impromptu date and he won't embarrass you with his hairstyle or outfit.
If its a date then its lunch or dinner at a quiet place (no one said expensive) he'd much prefer to have a simple deliberate conversation than shout and fist pump his friends over the loud club music because of how hot you are.
If he indulges your mind, questions your thoughts and genuinely wants to make you laugh, call back that nner baby girl.
He doesn't mind taking you out but he also won't go beyond his means. A good guy is honest about his financial position from the get go, a good woman doesn't really care.
He won't be afraid to tell you that your weave is terrible but he'll say it in a way that will make you smile instead of hurt your feelings. He won't be afraid to call you out on a lie and he definitely won't mind reminding you what you said because guess what ? He was paying attention.
Chilvary is not dead. Contrary to what most people think, there exists a breed of men that still remembers to pull your seat when you go for dinner and make sure you get home safely without feeling like you had to have sex to make it worth while.
Note that we didn't say that he had to have it all figured out, he's not Richard Branson. However, he has a goal and its his focal point in every things he says.
Something about his personality sets him apart from the rest of the douchebags out there. It could be his attention towards you, his principles or even just his way of saying things.
A man that can cause the giggles even when he's not around is a keeper. It's never a dull day with a good guy.
You're not sitting there thinking about him cheating. Infact, you just can't imagine it. No, its not being naive for not doubting a guy, it's called trust. Enjoy it, it's rare.